There are different levels to that love. I always said I loved myself but I allowed myself to let people do things to me that were wrong. I didn't love myself as much as I thought. I had to learn to be selfish in a way that allow me to put what best for me in the forefront. It's made me a happier person.
Loving myself evolves over time and it's a serious journey. This self love has improved not just my relationship with my fiancé Nygel, but all relationships I have with people I care about.