|Me with my two month old son Nygel|
I say that to say this. Be mindful of the questions you ask a man or woman about their timeline to have children. You truly have no idea what that person has endured. I have had people say things to me who had no idea of my journey. I did not hold it against them because I know they were not trying to cause me harm, but their words still stay with me years later. Also keep in mind that when somone does have a child, their bundle of joy does not replace the child that was lost. The feelings can be a range of emotions from pure joy, to guilt. Just enjoy that beautiful new bundle of joy and rejoice with them about their new blessing.